People, Feelings and the “Moving On” Process.
When the first break up happens, it seems impossible to us to move on from it. I know that, because I have been there. From my first one, it took me ages to get over, it actually lingered, happened again and yes, HURTS AS FVCK.
But one thing that I learned from all my heartbreaking experience, not only from failed relationships but also, the entire hardships that I have been in, is that when a person is hurt badly, that persons will go through the same thing, grieve but eventually, freedom from the pain.
Most of my friends ask me what I did when it all happened to me, told me that I have been “positive” all my life or if not, I don’t act like such a crazy person saying I can’t live without, yeah, you get what I mean.
But they were all wrong, I wasn’t always that positive in life and I actually became one of those people who thought that ending a relationship would end all of me.
I WAS WRONG. Eventually, all the pain became lessons and all the memories became just memories that when I turn back from the way I was, it made me smile because from all the things that happened to me, it made me stronger. Stronger than I ever was.
Right now, things are a little crazy, I still go out with friends, have shitloads of school works, church services, etc. But one thing is for sure, moving forward from what it used to be may seem impossible, but it’s not. One day, you’ll wake up and realize that all of your pains are gone, because true enough, all you need from moving on are: FAITH, ACCEPTANCE, FORGIVENESS and most of all, TIME.